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      Hey yes I've been quiet for a good long time. I do humbly apologize. My journey is weird. I can't tell you except to say that I was blocked. So this little project was the crack in the dam.

      Here we go…My vision of something I shared on Face Book. Someone requested a *do* version rather than the *do not* version. So without further ado…

      First, listen to your intuitive knowing. Learn to trust it. It will never lead you astray. Next tell those important to you that you love them. Tomorrow is not guaranteed. Your actions should show it as well, but that is kind of a given.

      Stand up for yourself, which means demand the respect for yourself that you show to others. Revisit my first statement, and learn to pay attention to your knowing.  Keep your comments regarding yourself, kind, if not awesome. This takes time, and awareness. Learn to stop the negative you have learned. My advice is to learn to say it out loud. When I catch my thoughts being negative, I respond aloud with “Stop...Kindness only.” It almost instantly shifts my perspective.

       Follow your dreams. Never lose hope. This is one I struggle with daily, but I still refuse to be quashed. Learn the power of saying “No”. It can be freeing. Also learn the power of saying “Yes” when you should. It can be rewarding, beyond all expectations. Again refer to my first bit of advice. Listen to your intuition.
      
      Kindness is the order of every day. Think of it like this, kindness is like water needed in a drought. Sprinkle that shit everywhere. Learn to accept that there are things you can’t control, and be okay with it. For example, you cannot control other people’s actions. You can control how you choose to react. Learn to disengage from the drama and negativity around you.

      Lastly this one is most important! LOVE – This one needs no explanations.

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Monday, May 18, 2015

Listen Up - Revised Self Care Tips




     
      Hey yes I've been quiet for a good long time. I do humbly apologize. My journey is weird. I can't tell you except to say that I was blocked. So this little project was the crack in the dam.

      Here we go…My vision of something I shared on Face Book. Someone requested a *do* version rather than the *do not* version. So without further ado…

      First, listen to your intuitive knowing. Learn to trust it. It will never lead you astray. Next tell those important to you that you love them. Tomorrow is not guaranteed. Your actions should show it as well, but that is kind of a given.

      Stand up for yourself, which means demand the respect for yourself that you show to others. Revisit my first statement, and learn to pay attention to your knowing.  Keep your comments regarding yourself, kind, if not awesome. This takes time, and awareness. Learn to stop the negative you have learned. My advice is to learn to say it out loud. When I catch my thoughts being negative, I respond aloud with “Stop...Kindness only.” It almost instantly shifts my perspective.

       Follow your dreams. Never lose hope. This is one I struggle with daily, but I still refuse to be quashed. Learn the power of saying “No”. It can be freeing. Also learn the power of saying “Yes” when you should. It can be rewarding, beyond all expectations. Again refer to my first bit of advice. Listen to your intuition.
      
      Kindness is the order of every day. Think of it like this, kindness is like water needed in a drought. Sprinkle that shit everywhere. Learn to accept that there are things you can’t control, and be okay with it. For example, you cannot control other people’s actions. You can control how you choose to react. Learn to disengage from the drama and negativity around you.

      Lastly this one is most important! LOVE – This one needs no explanations.

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